Sunday, March 15, 2009

The Ides of March

Okay, so it is mid-March and it has suddenly occurred to me that I have about 4 months left to accomplish my goals. I thought it was time to revisit where I am on my "31 Things to Do Before 31 List."

I have already realized that it will be simply impossible to accomplish some of these items 4 months, much less a year (since I started the list shortly after I turned 30). So I thought I'd put them into categories: things I can do NOW (that for some reason I haven't), things I can do before I turn 31 on July 31, things that will take longer than 1 year to do, and the things I have completed.

I thought I'd start on the positive . . . the things I have completed (it's a short list):
  1. Get a bicycle
  2. Take vitamins daily - not only am I taking vitamins, I'm taking amino acids!
  3. Get carpets cleaned - okay, I need to do this again, but I did it in December
  4. Find a side gig - planning a marathon!
  5. Reduce junk food and fast food intake
  6. Cook one major meal each week
  7. Get a physical
  8. Get 30 minutes of physical activity at least 3 times/week
  9. Watch more documentaries and independent films - I made it my mission to see those small indies that got a lot of award attention like "Slumdog Millionaire," "Milk" and "The Wrestler" - I loved them all!
So, then there are the things that I have realized are going to take much longer than I thought:
  1. Write a book - I got started, but I didn't like how it was going, so back to the drawing board!
  2. Eliminate credit card debt by 50%
  3. Increase balance in savings account
  4. Buy a desk - I totally found the desk I want, but it costs $3000 and I'm thinking considering #2&3 on this list, I probably should wait until I get this one accomplished
  5. Eliminate negative relationships - platonic, familial and romantic (I think it takes years to accomplish this)
  6. Make one home improvement - still not sure what to do . . .

There are the things I still have hope to do over the next 4 months:

  1. Go to New Orleans
  2. Lose at least 20 lbs - 17 to go!
  3. Stop wearing so much black
  4. Buy a pair of designer jeans
  5. Buy a large mirror for the dining room
  6. Perform in a stepshow - will accomplish this one this weekend!
  7. Pay off car - 2 more payments (of course now I need new brakes and a new battery so there goes that savings . . . )
  8. Complete family tree and send to family - I could do this right now, but I'm pretty sure I won't do it until I have a vacation
  9. Get more involved in church - I am torn between 2 churches now, so I'm not sure which to get involved in . . .

And these are the things I should be doing now, and have no excuse for not doing:

  1. Find a physical activity I enjoy doing - still haven't found anything to commit to
  2. Drink more water - I'm good while at work, but not at home
  3. Do sit-ups nightly
  4. Learn more about football
  5. Balance my checkbook weekly
  6. Read more - I'm thinking about changing this to read the Bible since that is what I have been doing lately
  7. Get a passport

Hold me accountable!

2 comments:

  1. Congrats on what you've accomplished so far. But...

    Much longer list:
    #6 - Changing plumbing fixtures in the bathroom and/or kitchen to match all door and cabinet handles/hooks is an inexpensive DIY improvement that can add uniformity and value to your home. It's all in the details!

    Next 4 months list:
    #8 - Are you really going to do this on your vacation?? How long will this take? I bet you can get the tree done over the next week by spending 15 min per day on it.

    #9 - You can't commit to both fully, so pick one.

    What you're (not) doing now list:
    #1 - Tennis, capoeira, running, a dance class, kickboxing, roller blading/skating, volunteer with elementary-aged kids, the list goes on and on...

    #2 - Don't keep any drinks in the house other than water. If friends come over, BYOB; and make sure they drink it all before they leave.

    #3 - That tank top in Nawlins could still show off those fab abs...

    #4 - Until the season begins again, espn.com

    #5 - People like you still exist in this economy?! :-) This should be done daily (if not the minute the purchase is made).

    #6 - What are you doing on your 1.5hr commute?? I thought you took the train?

    #7 Passport info: https://pptform.state.gov/ The sooner you get one, the sooner you can go almost anywhere in the world!!

    Hope this helps!
    -Lexyne

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  2. I need you to get the passport done on your next work at home day.

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